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Six top tips for group sex!

Do you know the saying, the more the merrier? Well, that CAN be true but only if you do it right. Right? So here are my top SLUT tips so that we can all enjoy more threesomes, swinging parties and orgies. Why not check out Killing Kittens here to see if they can help you indulge in any of your fantasies...




💖 BE SAFE - use a condom, get tested regularly and communicate any issues with the group beforehand. It’s just common sense, but it definitely gets un-sexy when someone has to bring up the condom rule mid getting hot and heavy…


💖 SET OUT RULES AND BOUNDARIES - Set out what you are comfortable with, learn what others are comfortable with and STICK with these. This can be as simple as no touching certain areas, no cuddling or no kissing. BE A SENSIBLE SLUT.


💖 PLAY BY THE RULES - This generally refers to the expected etiquette of the party, or room where the sex is happening. Is it free for all room/bed? Great - have at it! Is it a couples-swap partner ONLY with specific other people? Respect the rules, or you’ll find yourself saying goodbye before you can say hello, boys!


💖 COMMUNICATION - Before you go anywhere, speak to your partner(s), communicate what you want from the party, what your goals and desires are. BONUS if this leads to hot sex after thinking about all the fun you could get up to…


💖 GET OUT OF JAIL FREE - Have a way of communicating to your partner that this isn’t working for you, you’re not getting wet or you just want to skedaddle and curl up watching crime docs on Netflix instead (it’s fine, I have done this). Remember safe words count here too!


💖 RELAX, HAVE FUN AND ENJOY YOURSELF WHETHER YOU GET ACTION OR YOU DON’T. Honestly, the pressure people put upon themselves to actually have sex at sex parties is immense. What usually ends up happening is the anxiety created actually means they DON’T have sex. And that’s fine too. If all you do is end up in the smoking area (you know this is where all the cool cats and kittens go, right?) and chat about the weather and still come away having had a good time. THAT IS A GOOD TIME ;)




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