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A Beginners Guide to Pegging: Or how to shove things up arses successfully...

First things first… pegging refers to when a female anally penetrates a male, or female with a strap on/ dildo. The term has developed since it was coined to now include anyone of any gender, so long as there is a strap-on and anal involved. Sweet!

Why would I want something up my butt?

It feels good, duh. People with penises have what is called a P-spot, similar to the female G-spot, that can only be accessed you’ve guessed in via the back door! This can trigger the most intense orgasms, for both receiver AND giver.

The giver can experience orgasm from the sensations created by the dildo, or if a double ended dildo is used, or they use one that vibrates…

Power exchange

So obviously by flipping the gender-stereotypes (aren’t we all over those by 2021?!) pegging allows for the giver to take a more dominant role in the bedroom. I mean please tell me you haven’t fantasised about a woman yielding a bigger dick that you, tell you what to do?! I certainly have…

Chuck in some extra toys, and sensations like blindfolds, feathers, sensory deprivation and pegging can take on a whole new fun meaning!

But before we get to all of that, here are some basic tips you should check out first…

1. Communication is key

Before you get down and dirty, have a long and sensible conversation with your partner, work out what any anxieties you both may have and make sure you are both committed and agree to this happening!

2. Toys

Please make sure you get a good harness and dildo, the last thing you want is your new found dick to fall off just before you’re getting down with it…

3. Lube, lube and more lube

Literally you cannot use enough, make sure it’s as wet as Niagara falls down there.

4. Start small

Use fingers, plugs, small toys before you strap on an enormous dildo. He will thank you for it I promise.

5. Change it up

Try different positions if it isn’t working for you or your partner. I promise you will get there!

Also please throw any concern that enjoying pegging might make you gay in the bin and set fire to it. Please, for everyone’s sake.


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