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A slut's guide to rimming or analingus

DO NOT BE SHY - EAT SOME ASS.


As Bloodhound Gang so beautifully put:


"I'm your biggest fan. I just wanted to ask...Could I eat your ass?"

You either love or hate giving or receiving rimming. One friend of mine describes rimming as, having a slug attempting to crawl into her ass while another tells me it gives her amazing orgasms.

The same goes for those giving analingus. The population is split. Even the most sexually open amongst us have strong views and squarely place eating ass as a hard limit. Amazingly, too many people still mistakenly believe the myth that rimming is exclusively a ‘homosexual’ activity.



So, I think it is time to bring rimming out of the shadows. I want to; educate people on exactly what rimming is, how to go about it safely and how to be an analingus / rimming god.

Let's get down to the basics. Both rimming or analingus are posh words for eating ass. It is the licking, sucking, kissing and penetration of your partner's anus with your tongue.

How to stay safe


Be clean


All sex is hotter if you are fresh and clean, but this is particularly true if you to enjoy analingus. A shower is enough for most, but if you want to attempt anal penetration with your tongue, think about an anal douche or even an enema. Being confident that everything is squeaky clean and safe is key to enjoying rimming.

Trim your pubic hair (if you want to)


We all have pubic hair around our ass and inner thighs. Even people that trim pubic hair do not always get the stray hairs around the perineum and butt hole.

I like to be cleanly shaven. I think less hair =better stimulations=getting off faster and better. This goes for my ass hole too. So grab your mirror and get down to some manual grooming. I’m lucky, I only have a few stray hairs which quickly fall prey to my tweezers.

Be safe from STIs


A shower or bath does not mean STI clean. Bacteria can live in and around your anus. It will be transferred through any contact just like any other genital area. Make sure you have regular and comprehensive STI checks. You can practice safe analingus with a dental dam which creates a physical barrier. So you can lick, suck, eat and penetrate the butt feeling reassured you are reducing the risk to almost zero.

Never go ass to pussy


Once you start eating ass, stay eating ass. It is not good sexual practice to play with the ass then the pussy without either a dental dam or shower. There are loads of bacteria that live in and around the ass that can cause infections in the vagina. So do not mix anal and vaginal play and keep your female partner safe

How to rim like a sex good


Get yourself some flavoured lube


Lube is a great slutty top tip to help overcome some of the apprehension of rimming. Not only does it help your lips and tongue glide over my ass and inner legs, but it also tastes yummy.

Do not start aiming at the bull's eye.


Do not just go straight for the bullseye, then solely focus on the butt hole. Think about taking the scenic route with your tongue. There is plenty to explore within the inner thighs to build excitement and get a girl like me soaking wet before you start probing their ass hole.

Analingus does not have to be only using the tongue. There are so many other things you can do while you are licking, kissing and sucking my ass. Why not think about adding these into your rimming adventure:

  • Fingers

  • Vibrators

  • Breath

  • Ice

Practice your rimming techniques


Think about creating different movements, pressures and shapes with your tongue. Practice making a broad flat tongue, a pointy end and flicking it in and out. I particularly enjoy people writing out their names with their tongue. For me, it is the ultimate subliminal form of ownership literally writing your name all over my ass or vagina.

You can also attempt some anal penetration with the tongue. Even if you have a tongue like Gene Simmonds you are only going to penetrate the first inch at best and then only after some serious practice this is a massive tongue workout.


Keep checking your partner's body language

It's hard to verbally communicate while you are face first in someone's ass so make sure you check on your partner's body language and work out touch signals you can use with one another to check-in. Do not forget the conversations you had before getting started and observe any limits set and any safewords in case they need to be used.

Most importantly keep chatting with your partner before, during and debrief after. The conversation is a great way to build confidence and to make it better and better each time.

Add more stimulation


Get playing with additional erogenous zones at the same time as rimming the ass. While your licking, sucking and rimming, let your hands or sex toys get busy. Nipples, clit, pussy are all still open for business and can tip a girl over the edge.


Find a rimming position that works


Not all positions were born equal for analingus. A good start for the one receiving to lay on their back with their legs spread. You can ease access by putting a pillow under your ass if that helps out. However, I love being on all fours or perching over the edge of a chair.

If you want to get kinky, think about introducing a hogtie, spreader bars or a sex swing. Whatever position you choose, find one that you are comfortable with and enjoy it.

Butt plugs and other anal toys.


Rimming can lead to all types of anal play and sex. Never forget that you can introduce anal plugs, anal toys or for you guys a prostrate massager too.

For a lot of people communication and planning is the key part of enjoying anal play, rimming or analingus. Make sure you chat about this and then if you want to give it a go take it slow and build up.




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